PinnedPublished inSex, Love and RelationshipsAll the Words You Need for Poly Kinky Sexy Times!When you do new things, you need new words! The comprehensive glossary, now in its permanent home here.Jul 118Jul 118
Why Your Politics Matter, If You Want Access to My BodyIt’s absurd to think it wouldn’t matter when my body is involved…and pleasure should be a factor, in addition to the power dynamics.Nov 24Nov 24
The Deepest Intimacy…is NOT SexIt’s being in cahoots, “up to something” and connecting for human experiences, which *can* include sex.Nov 131Nov 131
It’s Not the Sex, It’s the LiesPolyamory’s true snake pit of infidelity is about truth and trust, not the hot, sweaty sex with other people (but sometimes, they are…Oct 291Oct 291
Yes, Please! Sexuality Book ReportDesigner Relationships by Mark A. Michaels and Patricia JohnsonOct 282Oct 282
Burned Haystack, Maslow’s Hammer & Survey Girl Methods of Dating“Catching a man” needs more strategy these days, so dating methods for women make sense, but are these just fads borne out of frustration?Oct 26Oct 26
What Would You Give Up…for Bad Sex?You might think the answer is obvious, but it’s probably not.Oct 151Oct 151
Published inModern WomenIt’s the Men Who Are Bad At Sex…Who Benefit Most from Pressing Purity Culture onto WomenIf you only ever had sex with one person, and that is all you have to go on, you might believe that it was good.Sep 234Sep 234
The Best Kind of Sex…Varies Wildly!There is no one best kind, but here are some types I recommendSep 14Sep 14