I know, it seems hard. It might be — but choose freedom and deal with the feelings.

What Do You Do When Your Partner is on a Sex Date?

Not just a date that may or may not be anything — a date where you know, at this moment, that they are likely having sex.

It’s weird, I’ll admit that upfront. But it’s happened more times this year as I have had steady partners, and I’ve learned to breathe through it and cope. They come back to me, happy and with good stories.