Or, questionnaire woman, both are true.
I co-hosted a poly-kinky-queer meet up over the weekend and it was delightful — people from different parts of my life, and times in my life. A former partner, some people I met through dating but haven’t dated, my polyamorous role model, my dear love-partner Mac, my poly-kinky-lady text chain friends…and some random folks from FetLife, apparently.
But I was on the lookout for a friend of a friend, and when we met, she said, “Oh, the survey girl!” and here we are. I’ve had 158 people take my Play Partner Compatibility survey (a Google form) and I try to write about it every 25 responses or so. I do have some interesting data, and here are links to my journey with this:
The Jays versus Chris and Matt
The analysis has summaries, and apparently the single most common name is Chris — 7 responses.
But Jay, coming in at 5 is next, and I know, from experience that this is a frequently used initial nickname for all men with names that begin with J such as Justin ( 4…