But, my knees look weird. Turn the lights off.

Stop “Spectatoring” Yourself

On Zoom, in the bedroom and everywhere else

During a women’s sexuality education class, my co-facilitator and I set aside the first session to talk about body image because we know it’s a challenge for women in “getting in the mood.”

I know that men have physical hang ups as well, but the pressure for women to be sexual objects of desire is deeply and thoroughly ingrained in our culture…