Sometimes….there are leashes.

How Sex Parties are Like Dog Parks

Besides the chasing, howling, sniffing…dominance and community, too.

I’ve been to a lot of sex parties in the past few years and now I’ve been to a good deal of dog parks….and there are some surprising similarities.

Arrivals

People get excited about new entrance, there’s a lot of circling and sniffing and testing of boundaries.

Everyone’s checking each other out, some doing so obviously and intensely, and others trying to play it cool.

The new arrivals always add to the excitement, and make a party better because there are more people, and that adds to the potential for fun.

Let’s go! Author’s photo

Here to Play

Even though the entire concept is to play and have fun…sometimes it’s complicated.

Sometimes people play too rough without meaning to.

Everyone is there to have fun but their definitions of that are different.

There’s a whole bunch of different sizes and shapes, all with their own tolerances.