If you’re looking for the clues, do you know who?
I would say I’m a pretty analytic, intuitive person. I notice things. I remember things. But dating men…sometimes, I’m surprised.
I have enough recent experience to feel like I’ve learned some things but it’s only in retrospect sometimes that I see I was looking at the wrong things.
Let’s see how you’d do.
Scenario 1: Scorpio
Here’s what I focused on: quirky, cute, chemistry, lots of fun, offbeat sense of humor, that he made me a beautifully detailed dinner, that he didn’t try to sleep with me right away, our interest in talking about esoteric and occult things.
Here’s what I missed: his primary girlfriend was out of town so he had time for me right then, his tales about “completely restarting his life”, the death of his son last year, his round-the-clock job and school commitments.
How that work out?
a. Ghosted
b. Dramatic break up
c. We follow each other on social media
Scenario 2: Cancer
Here’s what I focused on: great conversation, thoughtful, a bit shy, good sexual skills, wanted me to take the lead, interesting work, strong, talked openly about his past relationships and family…