#Goals #SexLife #HowtoLoveMe

Make it less of a puzzle.

My goals, with descriptions of what achieving them looks like for me, so you can write your own!

It’s not enough to just say “intense enthusiasm” and leave it at that, I think it’s helpful to share my vision of that, and to also make it real in my own head, so I wrote these descriptions of my three dating goals.

Intense Enthusiasm:

“I like you. I like you a lot. I’m profoundly interested in you. I’m excited to hear from you. I want to see you whenever possible.

You’re excellent and I’m lucky to be with you. I will make the most of the opportunity to enjoy you.

The more I get to know you, the more I respect you.

I let you know how pleased I am with the things we do together.

High Quality Pleasure:

“I want you to be pleased. I will wait before escalating things until I’m sure you are enjoying yourself.

I will refine my techniques and approaches to suit you. I’ll ask for feedback.

I will try things you like, within my boundaries.

I will try new things in the pursuit of pleasure. I understand that the goal is mutual pleasure and we will work together for mutual satisfaction.”