All the Words You Need for Poly Kinky Sexy Times!

When you do new things, you need new words! The comprehensive glossary, now in its permanent home here. Language, and relationships, are always evolving. And, some of them are shorthand I invented (as denoted by *) but also…could come from the poly-kink internet-ether. Interested in how I come up with new terms (sometimes with help from my friends)? Link here.

Lots of new updates in the terms and concepts you should know, here. I’m now continually updating this version. I challenge you to use one of these in conversation today and see how it goes…report back in the comments!

Special “sextion” on evolving identification terms now at the end. Enjoy exploring!

Alphabetical Listing of Poly Kinky Glossary, below:

5-minute float*: the five minute rush of happy chemicals (mostly endorphins and dopamine) that you share in mutual collapse after orgasms. (Can also last longer than 5 minutes, can also have a delayed onset.)

Adorosexual: word coined by my friend The Ould Brit to describe people (tend to be women) who get turned on by knowing they are turning on their partners. (Sometimes just by their very existence.) This concept is also known as “reflexive desire.”

Aftercare: when used in a sexual context, it’s how you and your partner support…