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New Edition: Poly-Kinky Glossary!

This list is always a work in progress, of course, because language and relationships are always evolving. And, some of them are shorthand I invented (as denoted by *) but also…could come from the poly-kink internet-ether. When you do new things, you need new words! 5-minute float*: the five minute…

Polyamory

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New Edition: Poly-Kinky Glossary!
New Edition: Poly-Kinky Glossary!
Polyamory

22 min read


Nov 26

Poly Orientation Session for Women

What I’ve observed is that women come to polyamory with different needs, and so I’m flipping it to the women, to offer some of the same resources as the men, but in different order. My orientation for men, here. (Also, I know that there are non-binary folx and that I’m…

Polyamory

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Poly Orientation Session for Women
Poly Orientation Session for Women
Polyamory

8 min read


Nov 24

Poly Orientation Session for Men

I woke up to find a new Feeld connection, and within 15 minutes, he disconnected from me. Here’s what happened: I read his profile, he’s recently divorced. I swiped because the pictures were pretty good, but he also listed some stereotypical men’s activities: fishing, golf, watching sports, weightlifting. …

Polyamory

8 min read

Poly Orientation Session — Men
Poly Orientation Session — Men
Polyamory

8 min read


Nov 7

Opening my Relationship Opened Old “Daddy Issues” Wounds but I Found the Key.

Brace yourself, this is going to be personal. In working through some old patterns, at the beginning of my polyamory journey, I had to go through a process of poking around in my brain and my heart. It was hard, because I generally kept too busy to spend a lot…

Dating

10 min read

Opening my Relationship Opened Old “Daddy Issues” Wounds but I Found the Key.
Opening my Relationship Opened Old “Daddy Issues” Wounds but I Found the Key.
Dating

10 min read


Nov 7

Into the Wide Open

I don’t date in the wild…or do I? I have long stated that dating in the wild, that is, off of the dating apps, is something that never works out for me. Then, my gauntlet involves a Google form with compatibility questions and clear expectations, so I’ll also mention my…

Dating

11 min read

Into the Wide Open
Into the Wide Open
Dating

11 min read


Nov 2

If the Cock Fits…. Ride it!

Fit matters, but it’s a bit mysterious Note: This is will be a heteronormative conversation, but please continue if you’re interested. Here’s a bit of wisdom from my polyamory and kink experience. …

Sexuality

4 min read

If the Cock Fits…. Ride it!
If the Cock Fits…. Ride it!
Sexuality

4 min read


Nov 1

Dating Profiles Need Help…

I’d love to help you get some assistance with this, here’s my form to fill out: https://forms.gle/cBoXofKGdHySkc3eA

Dating

1 min read

Dating Profiles Need Help…
Dating Profiles Need Help…
Dating

1 min read


Nov 1

Catholic Explosion or Implosion

There’s really only two ways this will go… It’s late on Halloween, and I am thinking about an interesting conversation I had tonight during trick or treating. …

Kink

11 min read

Catholic Explosion or Implosion
Catholic Explosion or Implosion
Kink

11 min read


Oct 25

The One with the Knife, the Gun and the Tourniquet

The headline is the sexiest part. Don’t worry, no one gets hurt. This is erotica, but trigger warning — it’s a little strange. There was a guy I was considering, we’d been out once for a drink. …

Erotica

3 min read

The One with the Knife, the Gun and the Tourniquet
The One with the Knife, the Gun and the Tourniquet
Erotica

3 min read


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·Oct 24

Only Prostitutes Do That….

Good Girl Mountain is surrounded by Slut Forest, it’s easy to slip and fall. — In a recent conversation with some middle aged moms, we were sharing stories of things our moms and grandmas had said to us about sex, and we got into a whole “Only Prostitutes…” theme. Only prostitutes drink from straws. Only prostitutes wear red lipstick. Only prostitutes shave above the knee. …

Sex

7 min read

Only Prostitutes Do That….
Only Prostitutes Do That….
Sex

7 min read

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