What I’ve observed is that women come to polyamory with different needs, and so I’m flipping it to the women, to offer some of the same resources as the men, but in different order. My orientation for men, here. (Also, I know that there are non-binary folx and that I’m…

I woke up to find a new Feeld connection, and within 15 minutes, he disconnected from me. Here’s what happened: I read his profile, he’s recently divorced. I swiped because the pictures were pretty good, but he also listed some stereotypical men’s activities: fishing, golf, watching sports, weightlifting. And, his…

Brace yourself, this is going to be personal. In working through some old patterns, at the beginning of my polyamory journey, I had to go through a process of poking around in my brain and my heart. It was hard, because I generally kept too busy to spend a lot…

I don’t date in the wild…or do I? I have long stated that dating in the wild, that is, off of the dating apps, is something that never works out for me. Then, my gauntlet involves a Google form with compatibility questions and clear expectations, so I’ll also mention my…

Fit matters, but it’s a bit mysterious Note: This is will be a heteronormative conversation, but please continue if you’re interested. Here’s a bit of wisdom from my polyamory and kink experience. …

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There’s really only two ways this will go… It’s late on Halloween, and I am thinking about an interesting conversation I had tonight during trick or treating. …

The headline is the sexiest part. Don’t worry, no one gets hurt. This is erotica, but trigger warning — it’s a little strange. There was a guy I was considering, we’d been out once for a drink. …

Good Girl Mountain is surrounded by Slut Forest, it’s easy to slip and fall. — In a recent conversation with some middle aged moms, we were sharing stories of things our moms and grandmas had said to us about sex, and we got into a whole “Only Prostitutes…” theme. Only prostitutes drink from straws. Only prostitutes wear red lipstick. Only prostitutes shave above the knee. …