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All the Words You Need for Poly Kinky Sexy Times!

Updated for 2025….When you do new things, you need new words! The comprehensive glossary, now in its permanent home here.

Jul 11, 2024

All the Words You Need for Poly Kinky Sexy Times!

Jul 11, 2024

The Fist of Consent: Five Powerful Parts

As a person who engages in facilitating sexuality education for adults and lives amidst the kink community, I finally memorized the five…

1d ago

The Fist of Consent: Five Powerful Parts

1d ago

The St. Bernard Effect: Are Men Too Thick to Hear Women’s Warnings?

“This came out of nowhere.” vs “I told him a million times.”

Jan 20

The St. Bernard Effect: Are Men Too Thick to Hear Women’s Warnings?

Jan 20

I Hate Condoms, Too.

Even as a woman who loves sex…Let’s talk about why.

Jan 8

I Hate Condoms, Too.

Jan 8

2024: My Year in Sex & Writing

Just when I think I’ve seen it all…New Highs and Lows + the Stats

Dec 31, 2024

2024: My Year in Sex & Writing

Dec 31, 2024

Getting Your Vitamin D: What’s Your Weekly Orgasm Count?

Not for competition, but for a personal health benchmark…

Dec 27, 2024

Getting Your Vitamin D: What’s Your Weekly Orgasm Count?

Dec 27, 2024

Where Our Interests Meet….Kinky & Surprising?

I met a polyamorous person this year, in the wild, at a wholly unrelated event. He was a photographer, I was a participant. Somehow we…

Dec 21, 2024

Where Our Interests Meet….Kinky & Surprising?

Dec 21, 2024

The Best Way to Avoid Sexually Transmitted Infections?

Ask this question.

Nov 24, 2024

The Best Way to Avoid Sexually Transmitted Infections?

Nov 24, 2024

Why Your Politics Matter, If You Want Access to My Body

It’s absurd to think it wouldn’t matter when my body is involved…and pleasure should be a factor, in addition to the power dynamics.

Nov 24, 2024

Why Your Politics Matter, If You Want Access to My Body

Nov 24, 2024

The Deepest Intimacy…is NOT Sex

It’s being in cahoots, “up to something” and connecting for human experiences, which can include sex.

Nov 13, 2024

The Deepest Intimacy…is NOT Sex

Nov 13, 2024

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Curiosity flows and I must write. Join me for adventures & insights about my kinky, polyamorous adventures. For more: Instagram.com/NorthStarMatches

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