PinnedNorth StarinSex, Love and RelationshipsAll the Words You Need for Poly Kinky Sexy Times!When you do new things, you need new words! The comprehensive glossary, now in its permanent home here.Jul 118Jul 118
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North StarIt’s Not the Sex, It’s the LiesPolyamory’s true snake pit of infidelity is about truth and trust, not the hot, sweaty sex with other people (but sometimes, they are…Oct 29Oct 29
North StarYes, Please! Sexuality Book ReportDesigner Relationships by Mark A. Michaels and Patricia JohnsonOct 282Oct 282
North StarBurned Haystack, Maslow’s Hammer & Survey Girl Methods of Dating“Catching a man” needs more strategy these days, so dating methods for women make sense, but are these just fads borne out of frustration?Oct 26Oct 26
North StarWhat Would You Give Up…for Bad Sex?You might think the answer is obvious, but it’s probably not.Oct 151Oct 151
North StarinModern WomenIt’s the Men Who Are Bad At Sex…Who Benefit Most from Pressing Purity Culture onto WomenIf you only ever had sex with one person, and that is all you have to go on, you might believe that it was good.Sep 234Sep 234
North StarThe Best Kind of Sex…Varies Wildly!There is no one best kind, but here are some types I recommendSep 14Sep 14
North StarHow Sex Parties are Like Dog ParksBesides the chasing, howling, sniffing…dominance and community, too.Sep 127Sep 127
North StarinModern WomenFirst Date Protocol for WomenHow do you go on dates with men (your natural predator) safely and still find good partners? Risk assessment is the name of the game…Sep 123Sep 123