North Star – Medium

North Star

Pinned

Published in
Sex, Love and Relationships

All the Words You Need for Poly Kinky Sexy Times!

When you do new things, you need new words! The comprehensive glossary, now in its permanent home here.

Jul 11

All the Words You Need for Poly Kinky Sexy Times!

Jul 11

The Deepest Intimacy…is NOT Sex

It’s being in cahoots, “up to something” and connecting for human experiences, which can include sex.

Nov 13

The Deepest Intimacy…is NOT Sex

Nov 13

It’s Not the Sex, It’s the Lies

Polyamory’s true snake pit of infidelity is about truth and trust, not the hot, sweaty sex with other people (but sometimes, they are…

Oct 29

It’s Not the Sex, It’s the Lies

Oct 29

Yes, Please! Sexuality Book Report

Designer Relationships by Mark A. Michaels and Patricia Johnson

Oct 28

Yes, Please! Sexuality Book Report

Oct 28

Burned Haystack, Maslow’s Hammer & Survey Girl Methods of Dating

“Catching a man” needs more strategy these days, so dating methods for women make sense, but are these just fads borne out of frustration?

Oct 26

Burned Haystack, Maslow’s Hammer & Survey Girl Methods of Dating

Oct 26

What Would You Give Up…for Bad Sex?

You might think the answer is obvious, but it’s probably not.

Oct 15

What Would You Give Up…for Bad Sex?

Oct 15

Published in
Modern Women

It’s the Men Who Are Bad At Sex…Who Benefit Most from Pressing Purity Culture onto Women

If you only ever had sex with one person, and that is all you have to go on, you might believe that it was good.

Sep 23

It’s the Men Who Are Bad At Sex…Who Benefit Most from Pressing Purity Culture onto Women

Sep 23

The Best Kind of Sex…Varies Wildly!

There is no one best kind, but here are some types I recommend

Sep 14

The Best Kind of Sex…Varies Wildly!

Sep 14

How Sex Parties are Like Dog Parks

Besides the chasing, howling, sniffing…dominance and community, too.

Sep 12

How Sex Parties are Like Dog Parks

Sep 12

Published in
Modern Women

First Date Protocol for Women

How do you go on dates with men (your natural predator) safely and still find good partners? Risk assessment is the name of the game…

Sep 12

First Date Protocol for Women

Sep 12

North Star

Curiosity flows and I must write. Join me for adventures & insights about my kinky, polyamorous adventures. For more: Instagram.com/NorthStarMatches

Following

Help
Status
About
Careers
Press
Blog
Privacy
Terms
Text to speech
Teams