PinnedPublished inSex, Love and RelationshipsAll the Words You Need for Poly Kinky Sexy Times!When you do new things, you need new words! The comprehensive glossary, now in its permanent home here.Jul 118Jul 118
Getting Your Vitamin D: What’s Your Weekly Orgasm Count?Not for competition, but for a personal health benchmark…3d ago33d ago3
Where Our Interests Meet….Kinky & Surprising?I met a polyamorous person this year, in the wild, at a wholly unrelated event. He was a photographer, I was a participant. Somehow we…Dec 211Dec 211
Why Your Politics Matter, If You Want Access to My BodyIt’s absurd to think it wouldn’t matter when my body is involved…and pleasure should be a factor, in addition to the power dynamics.Nov 24Nov 24
The Deepest Intimacy…is NOT SexIt’s being in cahoots, “up to something” and connecting for human experiences, which *can* include sex.Nov 131Nov 131
It’s Not the Sex, It’s the LiesPolyamory’s true snake pit of infidelity is about truth and trust, not the hot, sweaty sex with other people (but sometimes, they are…Oct 291Oct 291
Yes, Please! Sexuality Book ReportDesigner Relationships by Mark A. Michaels and Patricia JohnsonOct 282Oct 282
Burned Haystack, Maslow’s Hammer & Survey Girl Methods of Dating“Catching a man” needs more strategy these days, so dating methods for women make sense, but are these just fads borne out of frustration?Oct 26Oct 26
What Would You Give Up…for Bad Sex?You might think the answer is obvious, but it’s probably not.Oct 151Oct 151